Tuesday, October 31, 2006

Famous Quotes on Wives

I recently read that love is entirely a matter of chemistry. That must be why my wife treats me like toxic waste.

David Bissonette

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When a man steals your wife, there is no better revenge than to let him keep her.

Sacha Guitry

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After marriage, husband and wife become two sides of a coin; they just can't face each other, but still they stay together.

Hemant Joshi

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By all means marry. If you get a good wife, you'll be happy. If you get a bad one, you'll become a philosopher .

Socrates

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Woman inspires us to great things, and prevents us from achieving them.

Dumas

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The great question... which I have not been able to answer... is, "What does a woman want ?

Sigmund Freud

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I had some words with my wife, and she had some paragraphs with me.

Anonymous

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"Some people ask the secret of our long marriage. We take time to go to a restaurant two times a week. A little candlelight, dinner, soft music and dancing. She goes Tuesdays, I go Fridays."

Henry Youngman

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"I don't worry about terrorism. I was married for two years."

Sam Kinison

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"There's a way of transferring funds that is even faster than electronic banking. It's called marriage."

James Holt McGavran

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"I've had bad luck with both my wives. The first one left me and the second one didn't."

Patrick Murray

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Two secrets to keep your marriage brimming


1. Whenever you're wrong, admit it,


2. Whenever you're right, shut up.

Nash

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The most effective way to remember your wife's birthday is to forget it once...

Anonymous

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You know what I did before I married? Anything I wanted to.

Henny Youngman

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My wife and I were happy for twenty years...…..Then we met.

Rodney Dangerfield

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A good wife always forgives her husband when she's wrong.

Milton Berle

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Marriage is the only war where one sleeps with the enemy .
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Friday, October 27, 2006

Good things about Persistency - It pays !

"If you wait for perfect conditions, you will never get anything done. Keep on sowing your seed, for you never know which will grow—perhaps it all will."

Remember about Thomas Edison's many attempts in seeking to invent the electric light bulb ?.

Susan Hayward in Begin It Now wrote, "Two dejected assistants of Thomas Edison said, 'We've just completed our 700th experiment and we still don't have the answer. We have failed.'

"'No, my friends, you haven't failed,' replied Mr. Edison, 'it's just that we know more about this subject than anyone else alive. And we're closer to finding the answer because now we know 700 things not to do. Don't call it a mistake. Call it an education.'"

Persistence paid off very well for Edison ... for us too because eventually he succeeded in perfecting the electric light bulb. Persistence in any worthwhile cause always pays rich dividends.

And better still—persistence in Charity or God's work pays eternal dividends.
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Monday, October 16, 2006

The Facts on taking risks


To laugh is to risk appearing the fool,
To weep is to risk appearing sentimental,
To reach out for another is to risk involvement,
To expose feelings is to risk exposing your true self,
To place your ideas, your dreams, before a crowd is to
risk their loss,
To love is to risk not being loved in return,
To live is to risk despair,
To try is to risk failure,
But risks must be taken, because the greatest hazard in
life is to risk nothing.
The person who risks nothing does nothing and is nothing.
They may avoid suffering and sorrow, but they cannot learn,
feel, change, grow, love, live.
Chained by their attitudes, they are slaves; they have
forfeited their freedom.
Only a person who risks is free.
Author Unknown
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Friday, October 13, 2006

"Take good care of my eyes"

There was a blind girl who hated herself just because she's blind.
She hated everyone, except her loving boyfriend. He's always there for her.
She said that if she could only see the world, she would marry her boyfriend.
One day, someone donated a pair of eyes to her and then she can see everything, including her boyfriend.
Her boyfriend asked her, "now that you can see the world, will you marry me?" The girl was shocked when she saw that her boyfriend is blind too, and refused to marry him.

Her boyfriend walked away in tears, and later wrote a letter to her saying.
"Just take care of my eyes dear."
This is how human brain changes when the status changed.
Only few remember what life was before, and who's always been there even in the most painful situations.

Moral of this short Story :-
Today before you think of saying an unkind word - Think of someone who can't speak.
Today before you complain about life - Think of someone who went too early to heaven.
And when you are tired and complain about your job - Think of the unemployed, the disabled and those who wished they had your job.
But before you think of pointing the finger or condemning another - Remember that not one of us are without sin and we all answer to one maker.
And when depressing thoughts seem to get you down - Put a smile on your face.

Life is a gift.

As i see it, the real moral of this Story:
It is just plain stupidity, Dun give anything valuable to your girl. Keep it to yor self !!.
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Thursday, October 12, 2006

Knowledge is Power



"Nothing ventured nothing gained".
"What You Can Conceive You Can Achieve!"
"Knowledge that breaks all barriers of understanding"
"Be curious always, for knowledge will not acquire you; you must acquire it." -- Sudie Back

Knowledge is What the World is Searching for..

In the spring of 1979 a 26 year old student at the University of Sheffield in the United Kingdom walked into the university doctor's office with complaints of a cold.
The doctor on staff noticed that the student, who held a first-class honours degree in mathematics, was rather normal except he had a slightly larger than average head. Curious, the doctor sent the student to James Lorber who was part of a world-leading spinal surgery team at Sheffield Children's Hospital.
What Dr. Lorber found was almost unbelievable!
The student, with a reported IQ of 126 had no signs of any mental deficiency. Yet, when Dr. Lorber X-rayed the student's head he discovered he had almost no brain tissue to speak of. His head was filled with fluid. What little brain matter he had was crushed against his spinal cord, a measly few millimeters thick rather than the typical CENTI-meters.
This condition is called hydrocephalus. It results when cerebral fluid expands and fills the brain causing the cortex to be squashed against the inside of the skull.
There have been many other reported cases where normal functioning people have been found to have virtually no brain matter.
In this particular case Lorber calculated the man's entire brain weighed about 100 grams compared to the average adult brain weighing 1500 grams. 100 grams is little more than the average weight of a dog's brain and this from an honours student in mathematics!

Let's pause and think about this for a moment. How many dogs do you know who have an honours degree in mathematics? Can't think of any? Neither can I. How was the student capable of functioning on the level that he was?
Lorber asked himself a similar question and it begged him to wonder whether the brain was even necessary at all. In 1980 the journal Science headlined with the discovery and the rest is history.

Many scientists have been quietly but steadily growing in suggesting the brain is more of a receiver than the total warehouse storing our consciousness. This leads to another unusual question. If the brain is a receiver what is sending the signals?
The answer is one we have been hearing from mystics for thousands of years.
You are not flesh. You are an energy being using a physical body to interpret and explore this reality.
By reflecting on that knowledge you have been given power because now you can work to affect your energy body. If you are not aware of it how can you help it?
Like your physical body, your energy body needs food. Albert Einstein said that energy can never be destroyed; only transformed. If you learn to absorb energy you will begin to awaken and strengthen your energy mind.
Without the proper knowledge you will never be able to make the transformations you want to make and awaken to a deeply profound and rewarding spiritual life.
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Monday, October 09, 2006

Money - Master or Slave ?.


"Beware! Don't always be wishing for what you don't have. For real life and real living are not related to how rich we are." ~ Jesus Christ

"Money," said Sanford Lee, "is an excellent servant, but a terrible master."

A reporter once asked the elder Rockefeller, "How much money does it take to satisfy a person?"

The billionaire snapped back, "Always a little more!"

Another has said:" Money will buy the following: A bed but not sleep / Books but not brains / Food but not an appetite / Finery but not beauty / A house but not a home / Medicine but not health / Luxuries but not culture / Amusement but not happiness / A crucifix but not a Savior."
Obviously we can't live without money and there's nothing wrong with being wealthy. The issue is do we own our money or does our money own us, and what is our motive for wanting more money?

The truth is that it takes money to do much of God's work and God's way of financing this is through the committed giving of his people. If everyone did this and gave in proportion to what God has given him/her (or tithed as some prefer to call it), God's work on earth would be done.

We came into the world with nothing. We'll go out the same way. It's only what we invest now in the Kingdom of God that we can send ahead.

"Do not store up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moth and rust destroy, and where thieves break in and steal. But store up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where moth and rust do not destroy, and where thieves do not break in and steal. For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also."

PS : Money is just one of the pure energy just like wind, fire or water. It can makes things happen just like fire. Use it wisely and not to burn your-self eg: to cook food, to keep purself warm, to boil water etc etc.
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Tuesday, October 03, 2006

Training Our mind


CREATING OUR REALITY
If we spent 4,000 to 5,000 thoughts focused positively and calmly on acheiving one object or goal, it is very likely to manifest - (as long as we have the right relationship to it - be aware of feelings of doubt, unworthiness, guilt, sin etc. Affirm 'I am worthy of.....")
Also be calm when you visualize your heart's desires. A distracted, anxious, envious, greedy mind - quickly loses energy & focus.
The calmer you are the quicker the results. Calm mind leads to long life.


Tips for training your mind.

Notice how decisions, choices, desires are arising or being made. Are they arising from fear (ego - fear of losing approval / power / control) or from a higher pure intention / source / compassion / love / being.

Be detached from the outcome - don't be annoyed if you don't get something you desire - you get what you need, not what your ego wants, however do your best.
Look at your everyday life as if you are watching a movie / dream. Take a step back - take a broader & higher perspective.

Be aware of symbols and coincidences - notice words / people / things / experiences / that keep re-ocurring - is there a message to learn from these things?
Balance your desires - we live be in the duality - gain / loss, pleasure / pain, light / dark , male / female, Yin / Yang - cycles of life - moderation & measure is the key

The trick can be :-
to have no lower desires, just preferences or higher desires
to have no preferences at all - non attachment , no fixed perspective, no expectations
to celebrate life, with conscious awareness / mindfulness (being especially aware of ego)
realizing there is no right or wrong only consequences eg. the more you drink the larger the hangover.

There is no need to renounce physical life - it is also the work of the divine. Every stone is sacred. Integrate meditation & action, method & wisdom. We live in a trinity -so there is always the third component - eg. male / female & neutral or the right hand, left and and path.

One needs to develop
Morality - (Renunction)
Compassion - loving- kindness, Joy, equanimity
Wisdom - Right View, Concentration (Meditation)
As an antidote to
Attachment
Aversion
Ignorance

Subconscious Mind, Habits & Affirmations

The subconscious mind is like a robot / computer whom we can program with certain functions and tasks. Subconscious mind is our auto-pilot, eg. we use it when we drive and talk on a mobile phone at the same time.
The subconscious mind (lower self) does not know the difference between imagination and reality - that is why affirmations & visualisations work.
'I am beautiful, healthy and slim'
but for this affirmation to work you need the right self-programming - right relationship to self and others. Also the affirmations need to be relatively realistic. For example
"I need the be fit, healthy & vibrant, I will be at ideal weight of ...., in 55 days"
So if for years you've been saying to yourself, subconsciously -
'I'll always be fat, I deserve to be fat!', then the above affirmation is simply not going to work!!
Say first, I am worthy of being slim, beautiful, healthy or having a my ideal partner / soul mate.
Also you need to love yourself before you can truly love others!
Likewise past negative attachments, thoughts, habits or beliefs hinder our progress.
'I delete all negative memories, emotions, thoughts & programming, that have been projected onto me by myself and from others, that are stopping me from reaching .. . . (my goal)......in the past, present and future.
So be it! So be it! So be it!'
Every morning and night you can affirm:
''I am healthy, vibrant and attractive'

However most are not aware that they are being controlled by their own subconscious mind.

VISUALISATIONS.

Visualize what you want
Know
Feel
See
Hear
Smell / Taste
that you are acheiving your goal.
For something to be in the physical, there need to be causes & conditions. started of as an idea in somebody's mind.

ON DEALING WITH SITUATIONS.

"Mistakes are a fact of life. It is the response to error that counts. Nikki Giovanni
"We cannot direct the wind...But we can adjust the sails."

Our thoughts shape how we react / respond to circumstances. If we master our mind we have control over our thoughts, words and deeds - instead of being under their control.
To have self control is to have strength. Serenity is goal, as well as our true nature.
We truly are incharge of our reality. In every moment we have the following three choices:

Leave the situation with dignity, like dolphins who only play with people they like.
Change the situation, if possible - may need discerning wisdom (prajna) & skillful means
Fully accept the situation, with compassion and understanding - like Jesus - surrendering to a higher power / wisdom / flow.

If you ever feel stressed, anxious, frustrated, angry, or negative just focus on your breathing or listening. Don't judge you emotions. Just watch them without trying to change your feeling.
Bring yourself to the present moment. Bring your mind home'. 'Place your mind in your body

Do not underestimate your mind power . Start trainig your mind today !.
Sports psychologists / coaches / pro's have been using these techniques to win major events. (Yogi's have known these techniques for ages!!)
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